Episode 6

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Published on:

11th Feb 2026

Ectopic Pregnancy, IVF & The Power of Community with Jack Silverside

This week, we are joined by Jack Silverside, an incredible member of the NeXYs community. Jack shares his and his wife Becca’s story, which began with a ruptured ectopic pregnancy that nearly cost Becca her life. He takes us through the fear and uncertainty of that time, the long road to recovery, and their decision to pursue IVF.

From the initial hope and naive optimism to the crushing disappointment of failed cycles, Jack’s story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. He opens up about the emotional toll of fertility treatment, the importance of investigating male factor issues, and the life-changing power of finding a community of men who truly understand.

💬 Key Topics Discussed

The Traumatic Experience of a Ruptured Ectopic Pregnancy

The Emotional Rollercoaster of IVF

Investigating Male Factor: Sperm DNA Fragmentation

The Importance of Peer Support and Community

Coping Mechanisms for Grief and Anxiety

The Decision to Never Give Up on the Dream of Parenthood

🕐 Timestamps

[00:05:00]: The harrowing experience of Becca’s ruptured ectopic pregnancy.

[00:25:00]: The crushing disappointment of the first failed IVF cycle.

[00:34:00]: The decision to investigate male factor issues and the discovery of high sperm DNA fragmentation.

[00:41:00]: How finding The Male Fertility Podcast and the NeXYs community changed everything.

[00:54:00]: The simple but powerful coping mechanisms Jack learned in therapy.

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About the Podcast

The Male Fertility Podcast
The UK’s leading podcast on male fertility. Real stories, expert advice, and the conversations men aren’t having.
The Male Fertility Podcast is the UK’s leading show dedicated to male fertility, hosted by Ciaran and Shaun, two men who’ve lived the reality of infertility diagnoses, fertility treatment, and everything that comes with it.

Whether you’re dealing with low sperm count, poor motility, low morphology, azoospermia, or a varicocele diagnosis, this podcast is the resource you wish you’d had from day one.

Each episode covers what actually matters: IVF and ICSI from the male perspective, navigating NHS referrals and waiting lists, the real cost of private treatment in the UK, lifestyle changes that can improve sperm quality, and the emotional and mental health impact that often goes unspoken.

We speak to fertility specialists, urologists, andrologists, and men sharing real, unfiltered stories — from difficult diagnoses through to successful pregnancies.

Topics we cover:

Male factor infertility: diagnosis and treatment options
Sperm health: count, motility, morphology, DNA fragmentation
IVF, ICSI, MESA, TESE, micro-TESE
Varicocele surgery and recovery
Supplements, diet, exercise, and lifestyle changes
Mental health, relationships, and coping strategies
NHS vs private fertility treatment in the UK
Costs, funding, and access to treatment
Supporting your partner
Real stories and success journeys

This podcast exists because male fertility is too often overlooked. Half of all infertility involves a male factor, yet most support is aimed elsewhere. We’re changing that.

If you’re facing fertility challenges, or supporting someone who is, subscribe now — you’re not alone.

About your host

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